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Post by Michael Kalinichenko on Sept 22, 2022 8:16:05 GMT
PERSONALITY & CHARACHTER Negative personality traits Nicer people are poorer, says study ===================================================================== Михайло Калініченко is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting. Topic: Kalinichenko 1st Year Students 2022 Time: Sep 22, 2022 12:45 PM Kyiv Join Zoom Meeting us04web.zoom.us/j/73635916947?pwd=lWbvTc5muq7Y1eEWWKoikEUh18RbIH.1Meeting ID: 736 3591 6947 Passcode: Df6gET
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Post by Nesteruk Pasha IF-12 on Sept 22, 2022 8:27:06 GMT
З ким ти живеш? Я живу зі своєю мамою, своїм братом і з чоловіком моєї мами, Дейвом. Мої батьки зараз не одружені, а мій тато полишив нас десять місяців назад і пішов до своєї нової жінки, Хелен і у них народилася дитина, Дженні, тому вона моя зведена сестра. Опиши свого брата. Свого брата, ну добре, його звати Річард, йому зараз 21 рік і він на 2 роки молодший за мене. Він розумний, але трохи лінивий. Він закінчив школу в минулому році і в нього були непогані оцінки тому мої батьки і всі його вчителі наполягали, щоб він пішов в університет, але він був іншої думки. Він хотів робити відео і постити їх в інтернет, але він не приділяв цьому достатньої уваги, тому його відео не були такими популярними і він не заробив ніяких грошей. Кого ти любиш в сім’ї найбільше? Скоріше всього мого двоюрідного брата Джорджа, ми майже одного віку, він на один місяць молодший за мене. Коли ми були поменше наші сім’ї проводили багато часу разом, але зараз я не живу зі своїм татом, тому в мене немає можливості бачитись з Джорджем і його сім’єю, але ми багато спілкуємось в інтернеті. Чому тобі подобається Джордж? Хм…Гарне питання. Насправді ми дуже різні: він спокійніший і більш серйозний за мене, він ненавидить спорт і полюбляє читати і вивчати історію. Я ж більше схильний до наук і я активніший за нього. Я полюбляю коли ми жартуємо щодо один одного. Нам подобається факт того, наскільки ми різні, але з тим ми знаємо один одного дуже добре. Тому коли ми маємо спільний час ми обговорюємо можливі проблеми.
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Post by Pasha Kursik IF-12 on Sept 22, 2022 8:43:31 GMT
З ким ти живеш? Я живу з моєю мамою, моїм братом і моїм відчимом Дейвом. Моя мама і тато не одружені зараз. Мій тато уже десь 10 місяців живе з його новою дружиною Хелен. В них народилась дівчинка, яку назвали Дженні. Вона моя зведена сестра. Що любить мій брат? Мій брат… Що ж, його звати Річард, йому 21 рік, він на 2 роки молодше, чим я. Він розумний, але трохи лінивий. Він закінчив школу минулого року. Він отримав дуже хороші оцінки там. Мої батьки і всі його вчителі хотіли, щоб він вступив до університету, але він не мав такого бажання. Він хотів робити відео і викладати їх у інтернет, але він не робить відео на достатньому рівні, тому вони у нього не популярні. Він не заробляє гроші звідти. Людина в сім’ї, яку я люблю найбільше? Напевно це мій брат Джордж. Він син брата мого тата. Ми майже одного віку, він тільки на один місяць молодше за мене. Коли ми були молодше, наші сім’ї проводили багато часу разом. Зараз я не живу з моїм батьком, тому я не бачу Джорджа, або його сім’ю часто. Ми спілкуємося онлайн. Чому саме Джордж? Ммм… Хороше питаня. Ми доволі різні він спокійніше і серйозніше за мене. Він ненавидить спорт і надає перевагу читанню і вивчанню історії. Я ж люблю науку і я активніше, чим він. Я думаю, ми полюбляємо жартувати один про одного. Ми любимо те, які ми різні і, звісно, ми дуже добре знаємо один одного, тому, якшо ми у нас будуть погані часи, ми можемо поговорити про наші проблеми.
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Post by Yana Moroz IF12 on Sept 22, 2022 9:09:39 GMT
Моя сім‘я
З ким ти живеш? Я живу зі своєю мамою, братом і хлопцем мами - Дейвом. Мама з татом розведені. Мій батько вже 10 місяців живе з новою дружиною на ім‘я Хелен і вони мають маленьку дитину. Її звати Дженні , це моя зведена сестра.
Який у тебе брат? Мій брат.. добре.. його звати Річі. Йому 21, він на 2 роки молодший за мене. Він розумний, але трохи лінивий. Закінчив школу в тому році і мав дуже гарні оцінки. Мої батьки та всі його вчителі хотіли щоб він пішов в університет, але Річі не хотів. Він хотів знімати відео та викладувати їх в інтернет. Але він недостатньо докладав зусиль,тому його відео не були популярними тому він не заробив грошей. Хто твій улюблений член сім‘ї? Напевно мій двоюрідний брат Джордж, це син батькового брата, мого дядька. Ми одного віку, він всього на місяць молодший за мене. Коли ми були малі , наші сім‘ї проводили багато часу разом. Але зараз я не живу с батьком , тому я не часто бачусь з Джорджем і його сім‘єю. Але ми багато переписуємось онлайн.
Чому тобі подобається Джордж? Хм.. гарне питання. Насправді ми дуже різні - він спокійніше та серйозніше ніж я, ненавидить спорт ,віддає перевагу читанню і вивчанню історії. А я більше люблю науку і я більш активний ніж він. Я гадаю ми любимо шутити один про одного та сміємся з того , які ми різні. І , звичайно, ми дуже добре одного знаємо , тому якщо у нас проблеми , то ми можемо поговорити про них.
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Post by Olha Vasyliuk_ІФ12 on Sept 24, 2022 10:32:56 GMT
Writing. "It's much easier to be nice than it is to be horrible." - do you agree?
'It takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile' - some TV show I've watched.
Being horrible is hard, not everyone would love a friend like this. But horrible people are usually very sad deep inside tho. They are scared of others seeing their weaknesses or vulnerabilities, or others being mean to them first.
I think it's easier to be nice, I mean, the world is a cruel place, I know, but you can't change that if you play by the same rules. If you treat it with a little kindness, luck is soon to follow.
It's hard to be nice all the time, yes, but it's definitely not an excuse for being mean. Being horrible takes a lot of energy, and even if being nice makes you a little bit more vulnerable (to people's opinions etc), for me personally being mean still doesn't worth it. Tho you can as well become caught up in trying to always be nice (and in toxic positivity, you know what I mean), like trying to always put others first, agreeing to everything, being afraid to hurt someone etc. And not always wanting to stand up for yourself (which kind of a bad thing).
If you know what you're about you shouldn't be scared of other people's opinions, you know who you are and that's the most important thing. Haters gonna hate, as they say.
And you shouldn't be rude to hide away your feelings, come on. But most of the times (for me, personally, at least) people who are rude are usually just ignorant and not educated properly. They might not even realise they're hurting someone's feelings 'cause that's just how they were raised.
And sometimes meanies treat people horribly just to make 'em feel good about themselves.
But, just being mean never solves the problem, actually it only makes it worse. No one would want to hang out with a horrible person. A person who doesn't care about you, who you can't trust, or even be honest with. It's better to be around nicer people and having a positive perspective on life. And never letting others bring you down.
In the end of day, you are the only one who can define your worth.
So yeah, I do agree with that sentence.
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Post by Nesteruk Pasha IF-12 on Sept 24, 2022 14:13:28 GMT
It`s much easier to be nice than it is to be horrible. Generally I don`t fully agree with this statement. I think that in one way it can be true but sometimes it`s just words that don`t make any sense. But let`s find out. First of all I`m the kind of people, who thinks that all humanity isn`t that perfect as it seems and as it shows us television or something we get information from. In my opinion, all people by their “default settings” are horrible. From our conscious life we often do things, which we are sorry about later. Our behaviour usually based on our egoism. Sometimes people try to hide all their bad sides and be nicer with people they like or with people, who are important for them. I would say that it`s not right to cover your terrible features of character. It`s normal for us to put that “mask” to be nicer and seem greater than we are actually are, but in fact it`s hard for people to be nice than it`s to be horrible.
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Post by Gryb Iryna ІF-12 on Sept 25, 2022 10:33:15 GMT
IT'S MUCH EASIER TO BE NICE THAN TO IT'S TO BE HORRIBLE
Nicer people are more vulnerable of emotional abuse. They help everyone as much as they can but sometimes this makes them so exhausted. Naturally, to be nice than to be horrible is more difficult. On the one hand, thanks to your kindness and politeness you always can make friends and communicate with everyone. But on the other hand, these character features just forces you to be nice and well-mannered in society. In childhood, all parents say that we have to be kind and behave well to everyone in our life. I agree with this opinion but actually, we cannot be nice all time. There are many unbearable and not-mannered people in the world. So it's hard to communicate with them and also help them. But it's not a big problem at all because when you meet a willy and selfish person who wants something from you, he or she makes all to get it. This person can emotionally abuse you and you feel yourself not good after all. So, in the end, I want to say that to be nice is really cool but also this is hard.
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Post by nastya stupchuk if12 on Sept 25, 2022 15:15:04 GMT
It's much easier to be nice than it's to be horrible
I can't completely agree with this statement.All my friends say that I'm nice person.On the one hand, it's much easier to be nice than it's to be horrible, because everyone prefers nice people, so they have more friends and acquaintances. To my mind, they are better friends. Nice people usually help and support you, when you need it. On the other hand, everything has advantages and disadvantages.About advantages I told and now let's speak about disadvantages.It isn't good at some situations.For example, when you always try to help others, they can start using you to do something instead of them. In conclusion, I should say that being a nice person isn't always so easy as somebody can think. But to my mind, it's really great feature of character.
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Post by Oleksandra Karban IF-12 on Sept 25, 2022 16:46:06 GMT
"It's much easier to be nice than it's to be horrible" In my opinion, it is not much easier to be nice than to be horrible. A lot of people can use you becouse of your kindness. If you are a nise, good person you can be sure that most of people like you. Of course it is not the most important reason 'couse you don't need to be liked by everyone. But it is can be helpful when you need some help becouse more people will help you. Now we have a lot of criminal offense and I think it is realy nobly when there are caring people which can help someone if this person are attacked. You should remember that if you will be kind, nice, responsive person you will receive more positive answers to your own requests.
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Post by matviichukanaif12 on Sept 25, 2022 18:42:21 GMT
Writing. "It's much easier to be nice than it is to be horrible"
This is a very interesting question because I'm not really sure that there is just one plain answer. I think it's a bit more complicated since the world we live in isn't all "black and white". It certainly isn't great to be horrible - this kind of behavior is an indication of an unhappy individual who's projecting their pain and past hurts onto others. Hence this would just continue the pre-existing cycle of hatred. On the other hand, someone who's always nice can become an easy target for those who might try to take an advantage of them. If you're being too nice people would perceive you as weak or uncapable. Often this niceness is not even sincere, some folks are just used to being "people pleasers" in hopes to get approval. In conclusion, I would like to say that a healthy balance is the most important thing in order to stay a kind person but not a pushover.
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Post by Pasha Kursik IF-12 on Sept 25, 2022 21:20:32 GMT
To be nice man much easier than to be horrible because other people prefer to nice persons. Usually people want to communicate with persons who are open to other and with whom are pleasant to communicate. Horrible persons are closed in themselves so it is hard to find a new acquaintances for them. Nice persons can help in some situations where horrible can`t do it cause they are not sure that they can do it.
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Post by valeriiapashynska_іф12 on Sept 25, 2022 21:56:27 GMT
“It's much easier to be nice than it is to be horrible”. I totally disagree with this thought. To my mind, trying to be nice to everyone is impossible in real life. Of course, role models in movies or media seem to be perfect people that have no conflicts in relations, but it’s a great hided lie. Personally, I feel that being nice all the time is about losing your own character in attempts to fit in unreal society’s frames. I was one of these trying to be nice to everyone and it was one of the silliest things I have ever done. As far as I’m concerned that the key of success is just being yourself with our own pros and cons. Getting angry sometimes, being rude or really stubborn, at least not being in mood for talking, smiling and joking as average – all of these things make us perfectly imperfect, that is, looking more alive and natural.
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Post by tsiupaoleksandraif12 on Sept 27, 2022 15:26:26 GMT
as for me, eating chocolate is the best way to get out of a bad mood because I really like chocolate and it can lift my spirit in any situations. To be honest, I can’t live without chocolate,even through I can’t eat it. On the second place, I put “walking” as a good thing to get out of a bad mood. You can walk alone and think about your condition. maybe you will meet friends on the way and it will cheer you up. shopping is something that can distract me from problems. I can choose clothes and completely forget about what upsets me. I guess the worst thing to get out of a bad mood is sleep. In my opinion, your condition will not change after sleep.you will have a headache and a bad mood will not disappear.
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Post by tsiupaoleksandraif12 on Sept 27, 2022 15:55:23 GMT
role play I think being overweight is the biggest trigger for bad moods. Firstly,you get upset every time you look in the mirror and you don’t like how you look. Secondly,you constantly think about how to lose weight and that’s the only thing that bothers you. You don’t except your body so you are always angry and irritated. Thirdly,you eat very little because you are on the diet and then you crash and it makes you more to bad. And in my view, not knowing what to wear shouldn’t upset you because in reality it’s not something to worry about. The main thing is that you feel comfortable in these clothes.
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Post by Michael Kalinichenko on Sept 27, 2022 16:19:00 GMT
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